"Falling in love IS an act of will IT IS a conscious choice" There is no Prince charming, coming to sweep you off your feet and take you away... why? You still choose to fall into his hands.. There is no beutiful Bell of the ball, striving to tame you the Beast... for you still choose to embrace the "tale as old as time.." So much could be avoided- if we simply acknowledge that we dont really fall..we jump!